Cemar The problem with LD women is that being sexual is NEVER the focus of their lives.
I was reading a woman's post on another forum and she wrote "my MIL, age 59, told her H that she didn't want to have sex with him and he could D her if he need to do that."
Major bummer.
So, Cemar, some people don't think about wanting to have sex with someone to the point that they are willing to give up the M.
What some people are trying to tell you, it could be worse, and look at the sex you do have as a gift in some little way.