Heywyre I don't know if I would be able to post it on here but might be able to email it to you guys. It would be interesting to look at.
I did look at several compatibility teats that were on-line. Many were of the humorous nature. Some of those might be relevant to identifying compatibility/differences but I still would like to know how to make the differences work so the R would be better, or know what to avoid doing so the R is less damaged.
I was thinking about the Enneagram books and wondering if there were compatibility books with information about what to do to when differences cause R problems.
I was reading about "fun loving people" on Cemars thread and how you said your H was fun to be with despite the OW problems.
I tend to be on the serious side of the fun spectrum. Sometimes it is difficult for me to find the fun in activities. My sister was married to a "Fun" type guy. He was a cheater and no one could depend on him.
Fun seems to go along with optimism. I have a friend that is using the materials from "The Secret" Rhonda Byrne, to boost her optimism. It works for her sometimes.
