My brother yesterday said I was not a strong person because I only work part time.
That was a thoughtless and inaccurate thing to say by your brother. I know how much work goes into taking care of children full time but then add a part time job and it can be overwhelming. My W was a full time mom until last summer (she occasionally had a PT job every once in awhile as a sub in the local schools) and she was swamped.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God