So give her a gift. REmove the relatiosnhip burden so she can focus on her internal growth...and YES the direction intially will be toward OM in a downward spiral. But DOWN is where the demons are, and she's got to face them.
Especially that part. Get used to it, get over it, the quicker you let go the quicker she comes around. The quicker you let go, the better you are.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK