They don't. Stop believing that sort of nonsense...please.
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I know that she "feels nothing" when she talks to me.
REally...is that so? You mean that even though she is lost and confused and uable to know her true feelings...you know them.
Sorry, I don't wanna buy that car.
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How is that possible after 22 years and 2 kids to just stop loving me.
It's NOT!
But when you have no self-love, how do yu expect to feel it for others? It is there beneath the numbness.
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I have not felt the love from her for some time.
And you're not going to feel it for a very long time. Her emotions are buried, her feelings are numb. You MUST accept that if you are going to Stand and simply to survive.
You have got to detach and ACCEPT that you are not going to see or feel the love. It doesn't mean that it is nonexistent. She's lost and scared and she's got to find herself before she can even begin to worry about your relationship and about loveing you.
So give her a gift. REmove the relatiosnhip burden so she can focus on her internal growth...and YES the direction intially will be toward OM in a downward spiral. But DOWN is where the demons are, and she's got to face them.
