Do you still look for evidence? My H has told me that he and the OW love each other. He's giving us a year to "see what happens" but then every other day he's telling me he's gone in a year. We're moving to a completly different state, which in itself is a good thing because the OW lives in the same town I'm in now. I do know he has a pay as you go cell phone just so he can talk to her. Do I even bother to put any effort into seeing if anything can be salvaged? I'm so torn. I have been married to this man since I was 17 years old, how do I just give up without trying to do something? Is there anything that can even be done at this point?