I appreciate your input, Corri! (I have read your threads some before)
The typical way of handling relationships is so different than what I am trying to expose myself to now. I think Joey and I have both felt SO JUSTIFIED in our complaints, etc., for SO long that it is really challenging to change the mindset. Thank you for the varied perspective. I am trying to let some of this sink in.
So, in a perfect world, I would not have said anything? How can I express my DESIRES, knowing that he can choose to go with them or not. I am trying to change myself and "do what works." That is why I am focusing more on the sexual side of things, etc. This would NOT have normally been my first plan of action as a result of him having a little email affair with someone. But I am trying to respect his perspective on how things got to where they were and focus on what will work for us.
