Yup the OWs will do what ever it takes.....my H was wisked away with an abuse scam.....turns out OW wanted a meal ticket.....she left her H in a heap similar to me. They are not worthy of our time and energy.....but they are parasitic leeches that when your H is ready to let go it will be hard....they will use every trick to keep their meal ticket.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest