Yup the OWs will do what ever it takes.....my H was wisked away with an abuse scam.....turns out OW wanted a meal ticket.....she left her H in a heap similar to me. They are not worthy of our time and energy.....but they are parasitic leeches that when your H is ready to let go it will be hard....they will use every trick to keep their meal ticket.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest