I wonder if by letting H come and go as he pleases if it is letting him cake-eat and not have to make decisions. Maybe he needs more boundries to help him work thru this mess.
It sounds like he does not want to loose you but yet he knows right now that he can have it both ways, so why not.
jak
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
