I am also going to my coucilor today. I also have an appointment with a lawyer to find out my rights. I have to think about our 3 kids.
I have just started considering that this is mlc and need some guidance from the councilor. I am not even sure how to deal with this and still hold out hope. I am not sure if I can wait upwards of 2 years. I need some help trying to figure that out.
I know that this does not excuse his behavior but it does somewhat explain it. At least it has given me some insite that it was not me and our past was not always bad (like he says). He actually just recently told me that no councilor would fix this. He said that we had 14 years to get it right and we couldn't.
Now I know that this has not been bad 14 years and he probably does still love me but does not want to see that.
Mimi
Bomb 3/31/2007 Moved out 04/22/2007 Moved back in 06/11/2007 Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007