How do I know if it is MLC

[HalfMissing]

I don't think anyone can understand why this is happening. Even my H admits our marriage was good - he just had to leave. They are sick, but it doesn't excuse their behavior.

I wish my H would go to counseling too, but he refuses. I don't think he would be in the right mindset anyway. It would just be an excuse for him to say he "tried". I am going today to a counselor for me. I have to deal with things better.