Keep doing the things that bring her closer - look for the signs - the baby steps that HB always talks about. But, don't be surprised if your W freaks because she feels like she's getting too close. Then, you give her space and start to slowly do those things that bring her closer to you again. You're right - don't pursue aggressively since that pushes her away. It's going to be a push-pull drama until she makes up her mind.
