How do I know if it is MLC

[bright 2 morro]

I can not help but still think "Why is he doing this to me?" Our marriage was good and he was always faithful. Everyone tells me thisis not about me but. How could he be doing this? When this first started (and less now). He says he still cares about me a lot and does not want to be hurting me. Then why does he. Is he even aware of the fact that he says that but then does nothing to stop it.

I am trying to understand why this is happening. I wish I could get him to counciling by himself or with me. I know that I can not force him to go. But uuuuuuuurrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhh!!!!!!. This is so frustrating.

Hopelessly in Love with someone I can not have anymore.

mimi