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what are you doing about it? Although the recidivism rate is lower for intra(inside) family, it's still alarming. Cannot just be ignored, and you can't let him around younger kids. How old was he when these things happening? The younger he was the better, for lack of a better phrase.

I know someone close who did do things like this, from at least a few times in his teen years, until he exposed himself to two girls in college. Went to pretty intense counselling and was scared "straight" I think.....it has been 15 years and as far as I know, no more of that. And he's married, but who really knows I guess. Thing is, no way could the family pretend it didn't happen. But it's really hard to deal with, I'm sure. Please don't feel guilty unless you can think of something YOU did and if you can, apologize for it and move forward. Have you gotten counselling for it? As a mom of a s20, I'd need it. So sorry about it all. Tragedy for many.
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Last edited by 25yearsmlc; 05/09/07 03:42 AM.

M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
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