"this is all we need" (in reference to the house being smaller and then he said, "and besides, we have each other and that's all that matters"
That was a very nice comment your H made.

I am not Mormon/LDS but they have some good ideas.
Strengthening Marriage Through Marriage Enrichment Programs
http://www.foreverfamilies.net/xml/articles/marriage_enrichment.aspx?&publication=short

http://www.foreverfamilies.net/xml/articles/marriage_enrichment.aspx?&publication=short

http://www.foreverfamilies.net/xml/listarticles.aspx?&xslfile=listarticles.xslt&categoryid=EQD

I was looking for compatibility tests and ran across the above web pages.

Lou