Just checking in--I went on a little girls' trip with my mom and sister last weekend, and it's been busy ever since. Things are still going great with H. I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt, though I struggle inside here and there with worries about everything settling back down to the way they were before and the reality that he can easily lie to me again.
I had a little talk with him the other day about the lying, and now I'm not sure if he's pathological or just a selfish man protecting his secrets. I think I'll just drop the topic for now and watch and listen and keep working on my end of things. As always, the truth will make itself known, and I'll know what I need to know.
In the end, we each have our strengths and weaknesses, and I can accept differences. Just can't tolerate more infidelity or lies.
