Respond to a text if it warrants a response, otherwise do not. I usually did not respond. Sweetheart knew that I checked messages and would contact him if he needed me to.
Regarding Dating A married peson who dates someone who is not there spouse is cheating.
Sorry, I'm strict on these things.
A person whose spouse has divorced them but WANTst o be married to their spouse and awho dates someone who is not their spouse is cheating.
Basically, if you want to be married to one person you should not be dating--casually or seriosuly--someone else.
MAny MLCers SAY they want us to find someone else. And then for many it is a new reality when that actually happnes...they get scared, and try to come back too early, or get pissed...some are upset but do not show it. But they SAY they want us to find someone...they feel unworthy. It will also help alleviate their guilt for what they are doing to you and can help to justify their behaviours--well she's doing it too.