When all the FUN gets sucked out of their lives, then these women lose their sex drive.
Are YOU fun, CeMar? My xH was definitely HD, but I would never label that man as fun. Ever. I mean, he liked to be entertained, especially by me... but as far as creativity went... nothing. NOTHING. No spontaneity, no planning... his idea of a fun day would be working in the yard, golfing and grilling out. Which... isn't bad... but I wouldn't necessarily rate it high on the fun-o-meter.
The guy I am dating... now he is FUN. And I'm thinking it might have more to do with his general outlook on life. He is very much an optimist, where my xH was very much a pessimist. My boyfriend is interesting, to me, because HE is so interested in life. He goes and DOES things, and he does that whether I am with him or not. He likes for me to be with him... but his interest in life does not evaporate simply because I am not around. Ewh.
I'm sure, give what you've said about your wife/family life, your existance is very much routine. That is not uncommon for most folks. You get into a day-to-day grind.
But if all you are willing to do is gripe about it, and not take some risks to change it... don't know that any of this discussion really matters.
