No intitating contact--AT ALL...unless it is a true emergency--9-1-1 emergency.
you can't win? You won't win by giving in and texting because after the fact of you not texting he acts as though he missed it. He did miss it...and had you done it he'd have been annoyed.
If he asks why you aren't texting tell him that you know he will contact you if he wants to.
