This may sound wierd, but it's not our financial problem, it's HIS. We keep everything separate. His bills are his, mine are mine. The only thing that he pays of mine is the house and that's because we had to keep him off of the deed because his credit sucks (imagine that)and I paid the downpayment when we bought it. That was the agreement. I'm so tired of trying so hard to save my marriage, I can't talk about issues that hurt. It's ridiculous. People shouldn't have to live this way.
