My H is a ND (I could only wish he was a LD) and yet I still find him incredibly "FUN" to be around. I don't think there is anyone in this world I would rather spend my time with. He has an incredible sense of humour, is kind, and just an all-around good person (believe it or not). And, it is not just me that says these things, so it must be true.
On the other hand, I have know a fair amount of HD people that I did not find pleasant to be around at all. As a matter of fact, a lot of them seemed quite stressed out about life, something like you are coming across to me right now (just my opinion, of course)
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)