Ok, as far as the C is concerned ... did she say she was willing to go to one, or to go "with you". If she said she was willing to go with you, then perhaps you could call her and say you would like to start going for C and would she like to join you. If she says "yes" then perhaps you could suggest if she would like to get together to choose one, or would she like you to pick one out. If she says she doesn't want to go to one, then I would still make an appointment for yourself


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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