I understand that nobody can make that decision for me. I am not sure what to do. I am very concerned about the money. He is using our charge for dinners with ow and I just got a hotel bill today for several days last week.

I am concerned because of the fact that there is not enough money for this and I have 3 young kids at home. I need to sell the house. Then what? I have a meeting with a lawyer tomorrow to find out my rights. I need to be sure that the kids are safe and taken care off. He does not seem to be spend thrift but what if that is next? But then again what if it goes through and he decides to remarry before this is done. I know that there are no guarentees but what if there is hope and I blow it by going through with a separation.


Bomb 3/31/2007
Moved out 04/22/2007
Moved back in 06/11/2007
Wants to stay and try 09/04/2007