How do I know if it is MLC

[HalfMissing]

I don't know either. Maybe you should do what I am starting to do, see a counselor to help you figure out what you want to do. I started looking into divorce just to see what the laws in my state were like, and it scared me silly. I do not think I am the kind of person who can wait years, but I think I might be able to wait for at least a few more months and then re-evaluate. You don't have to make a decision to wait forever. I started by telling myself I would have hope for three months and would then re-evaluate. You have to consider your financial situation and religious beliefs too in deciding what the best move is to make for you.