Hapinees, is it even possible part II

[fearless]

HD personality types are fun, LD personality types are NOT fun.

I am not so sure about that but I'll assume you are generalizing. I know HD men and women that are not that fun at all. But then again I suppose some of it has to do with your definition of fun...

It's like all the FUN gets sucked out when women lose their sex drive.

I am not a mom or LD so take this for what it is worth... I have a feeling some LD moms might reverse that statement:

When all the FUN gets sucked out of their lives, then these women lose their sex drive.

Having constant work and pressure on you all the time makes having fun seem impossible which I am sure diminishes the desire for sex in many. That's what some men don't seem to understand. Their wives work so hard at keeping the house, taking care of the kids, etc. and the husbands see some of their wives work as needless. So they make more and more time for their fun and their wives resent that their husbands are able to have fun while they are "stuck" doing all the work. And it DOES NOT help the wife for the husband to casually remark that the wives should have "more fun." First it condescends to the wife as if her priorities are unimportant to the husband and alienates the wife from her husband.

So my solution would be to HELP the wife bring her life back into balance (by respecting her priorities, seeing where you CAN help, having the FUN that she likes, etc.) so she CAN have more fun and maybe just maybe get her sex drive back...