CeMar, That still does not answer the question I put to you.
What you are telling me is her perception of the problem. (FWIW, her focusing on "SEX" as the issue, is no different than how steadfastly you focus on "DESIRE"...she doesn't get it....it's as if you two are on polar ends of the conversation.)
What I asked, is what have YOU have SAID to her. Not how did she respond. Literally, what are the words that YOU have used to communicate to her? Give me a sentence that YOU have used in your attempt to communicate. It's not a difficult request I'm putting forth.
If you are communicating to her in the way you try to communicate with others on here....she won't get it. Why? Because you talk around issues...you really don't talk about the issue. You really don't answer anything directly on here, you talk around stuff and that leads to people becoming frustrated/esasperated in their attempts to communicate with you. So if you do that with her...that adds to the problem.
