New To SSM II

[ACJ]

COG I was watching a television programme last night and thought of you and your sitch. It was called Obedient Wives. At first it was all about men who literally want their wives to do every little thing for them and I know that of course that is not you. Then it went onto to describe a book called 'The Surrendered Wife'. Apparently it written in America and has caused a bit of a storm as it is very controversial. I'd never heard of it myself. Anyway the bit that made me think of you was listening to a scottish woman who is now M to an american. Their R was very stormy and on the verge of breakdown. She read this book and now everything has turned around for her. Her's wasn't the only story portrayed with the books methods in mind but she was the only one who mentioned sex. She said the book says that 'obedient wives' never say no! She said it took her some time to come to terms with this but since she has her sex life has never been better and thier R has improved beyond recognition. I haven't read the book and probably won't but just thought it might be another 'tool'(pardon the pun) for you!