I have tried to explain it, but it never seems to be understood. One of the biggest problems is that she focuses on the sex. Sex is NOT the issue. It is about how the desire for sex changes EVERYTHING else about a woman. Like most LD women, she does not realize that almost everything about her has changed, not just her sex drive. I like to refer to this as the HD personality and the LD personality. It is very similar to what Michelle describes in SSM. HD personality types are fun, LD personality types are NOT fun. I loved my original wife, my current wife I do not. It's like all the FUN gets sucked out when women lose their sex drive. This is why willingness to have sex does NOT help, because it never really was about the sex. Sex is the RESULT of meeting the need, it is NOT the need.
