I'm not getting from your posts that your wife knows what a love language is, much less has any interest in speaking one.
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So if the wife is going to show me love, is it not her responsibility to show me in MY love language?
According to whom or what rule book? And even if it was... she obviously isn't doing it. So now what? You have convinced me, at least, that your wife is an unmovable object on this subject. Learn to live with it until you are willing to leave your marriage. Give up the gripe on what your wife should do if she loved you, and everything you are not getting from your ND wife. It is only self-torture. From my end, at least, your continual grinding on this sounds like a man who is angry and hurt that his blind wife can't see. kwis?
