Thank you SO much for that perspective. I completely agree with you and my wife has said exactly that on many different occassions even before this incident.
She says when we men see a beautiful woman, we think of having sex with them. When they see an attractive man, they dont think about his package and wanting to have sex with him. At least most men. We have actually had this discussion amongst friends and virtually all the women said the same thing.
That being said, why hide the pics. Why not just explain to me what happened and review the pics with me to have a few laughs together. It may have been tough for me, but it would have been better than feeling my wife, whom until now I trusted without question, was purposely being deceitful.
Your words have REALLY help me tonight as my lack of sleep is making we completely wackey. My head is spinning all over and all I want is to curl up with my wife and sleep for two days.
I love her to death and I am certain she loves me the same. We are truly soulmates and I would hate for this hurtful feeling to continue to linger on my part. Yet I do want to be assured that she will always be completely honest with me.
Thanks again.
BTW, all the women said he was gay afterward anyhow. My wife and one of our friends have uncanny Gaydar. I will continue to hold on the that thought
