Wise DB'ers please help!

[Heywyre]

I think you and I have MUCH different situations so we can't really compare.

As for her not taking the steps, that is YOUR opinion, not hers. Maybe she feels she is going to fast, maybe she thinks she is doing the right thing. She might be thinking the same thing that you are "he's not doing what I would expect". You can't read someone else's mind. You have to do what is right for YOU and accommodate the other person. I think, based on what has happened over the past couple of weeks, you should make a point of getting together with her to discuss where your R is going and how to get there. If it means going for C (which she agreed to) then arrange for it ASAP if she is okay with that. Perhaps that would be the best first step and they could give you some guidelines from there