I agree with Cades - don't do it unless YOU really want to. There is nothing in the rule book that says you can't keep trying. I am sure there are oodles of situations out there (mine included) that most would have said there was no chance for but we are still hanging in there and making a real good go at it. If you don't file and she doesn't either, there is always hope. Heck, even when one has filed, there is still hope - we see and hear about it all the time

Do what is best for YOU 12_51, the rest will fall into place as it should


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)