It’s really amazing. April 12th I was crying and begging and now with the help of you guys and gals I feel the tide turning. I’m not getting my hopes up yet but by giving her space, having a good time myself. Forgetting about the OM (stopped looking at the phone minutes). I kind of feel like my W is starting to pursue me a little. It’s just little things. Like at a party we were at she asked me if I wanted her to fix me a drink. Before she wouldn’t have botherd. When she went shopping she bought some salt and Vinegar chips. I’m the only on in the house that likes and eats them. I can’t give in yet. I don’t want her back the way she is. I want her back the way she was or better. We have are first couples meeting weds. I hope nothing goes wrong. When I went to my councilor a few weeks back she stated that I need to tell my wife to stop calling the OM. But after “talking” to my new best friend here. (She knows who she is) She told me that it has to be my wife’s decision I agree. I’m not settaling for anything less. Everyone out there just joining this group. It looks dark in the beginning but the light does come on. You start to realize that you will survive if you get back together or not. I must admit I do love my wife and I want us to work things out but……. I have been looking and you know what? My wife is not the only woman out there. There’s More……If we don’t work it out maybe it’s time to trade Up.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
