Ummm I'll just tell you about our sitch and see what you think. When H asked me about the A, he knew things he couldn't have known on his own. Not sure what your views are on God, but I believe God shared things with him, things he could NOT have known otherwise. So when he came out with those things, I lost it and shared it all. Answered his questions.
One of the things he said was he wants us to be honest and another thing he said was "keep in mind, if I'm asking you a question, I generally already know the answer and am just seeing if you'll be honest with me"
THAT last one - is what got me to really keep everything on the table with us.
He had already gone through my suitcase, already seen evidence of the A - but I did deny it for two days.....mostly because I didn't want to hurt him and I really wanted to pretend it never happened. I felt horribly about all of it and didn't want to keep reliving it KWIM?
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
