MP I understand your situation. I think (and I think you've said this) your main issue is the deceit and lying. If it was harmless, why lie and delete the pics? I'm sorry you're dealing with this.
I'd tell her that you need to talk and be honest with one another all the time. And tell her what you think is inappropriate and see what she sees as inappropriate.
And Virginia - he's not just her "lover" but her husband. She should show him some respect - and vice versa. Sheesh.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
