It's all fun and games now for them but I wonder what's going to happen when the 19yr old realizes she is getting into a ready made family. With a son 6 years her junior My sitch is a little different because we are still living in the same house but she continues to call him several times a day. He fortunately for me lives out of state so I look at it as it’s my home game in this situation. All he can do is talk, I can show her a good time. It’s hard to not think about the other person. But you have to remember something else was the problem. If our spouses were Happy they would not have sent seeking someone. You are doing the right but as I know the hardest thing but Not contacting them unless necessary, this is hard for me. Sometimes I’d like to call just to see how my W day is going. But I think that the less I contact her more something will be missing. Take care of yourself. One of the first things I did was have a front tooth fixed. It has bothered me for years but I always put it off because other things were more important... I dress nicer now and I think she might be noticing. Like I said for me he is just a voice on the phone. But I’m here in living color.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
