Glad to read you and kids are okay. Your brother is lucky to have you as a sister. I agree w/you, helping family is what we should/need to do.
Your last paragraph is exactly what I feel and am living with at the moment. No pushing, becuase yes, he will back off. This is where we find it the hardest to keep our mouths shut & let our MLC spouses work out their own demons.
Isn't it frustrating & irritating how the MLCer won't "talk" to us or anything? AND here we are their number one supporter.
<sigh>
How was your weekend?
Sending positive thoughts your way.
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08