My W had the girls this weekend at my IL's house and my SIL/BIL took the girls Saturday night. I did see my girls on Saturday because I had to pickup 5D for t-ball. It was awesome seeing them. My DD's spent the night again last night with my W at my IL's because of miscommunication between my W and I.
As for me I went to a friends house both Friday and Saturday night. It was nice not being home alone. Sunday I went to church and then had lunch with a friend and his family. I then went golfing with two of my good friends. This is were the miscommunication between my W and I comes into play. I was not aware of a time that I needed to be around to take the girls from my W and she assumed that I knew that they would be dropped off in the late afternoon.
After golfing last night I went to my IL's while my W was working to see my DD's. I had an interesting conversation with my MIL, it seems like I am the one with the thick skull. I guess I don't get it. MIL during our conversation got upset when I mentioned that my W was running around with another man or when I mentioned that she was planning a life with him. Both statements are true..... My MIL kept stating that was then this is now and did I have any proof that she was still doing this? How about OM calling her yesterday for 40 minutes is that enough? I did not tell my MIL about that, I just kept that information to myself.
My 5D is clearly upset by the whole seperation between my W and I. When I saw her yesterday she ran up to me crying saying that she wanted to go home and wanted both mommy and daddy there.
Now my W called this morning informing me that after her counseling session today that she is coming home and will sleep downstairs if need be. I cannot keep from the house so I have to ok with it. She also mentioned that my 5D this past weekend kept crying and kept asking for me.
So my W is coming home..... Hopefully we can work this out. I just don't see any hope at this point in time.
My question is this: Is this a good sign? or is this right on par for a sitch like mine?
