it has to do with an individuals needs and tolerance levels
Maybe it also has to do with a person's inability to see past what they WANT. I have needs too but I am willing to put them aside because I love my H and he is doing all he possibly can right now to show me the only type of love he knows how. That doesn't mean I am happy with it, or that it is fulfilling my NEEDS or my TOLERANCE level. However, I did marry "for better or for worse" and I intend to live up to those vows.
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)
