I agree with you. I don’t want a complete clone of me at all, and she isn’t. She is very much a free spirit and I’m more by the book. We always used to tell each other that we had the best of both worlds. I could look at things through her eyes and her’s though mine, its great. I just wish that we were on the same page about the R. I still haven’t heard from her, and not sure if I will. I think I’m just going to detach myself from her and let her make the next move, if there is one. Do you think it is wise to leave this in her court? Or should I continue to be the one trying to save us? I’m really torn here, what she was saying last week and how she was acting, it was an easy choice, I need to try to save it. But it worry’s me that she can slip back into her old ways so quickly, since I didn’t see anything I did differently from last Sunday til now. What do you think I need to do? Do you have any references on detachment? Is detachment the same as going dark? I don’t think going dark is the right thing to do here, so knowing the difference would be great. Thank you so much for listening.
