I was wondering if it's normal to feel almost like the emotional connection to them is breaking a little.
I think it's normal to feel a little disconnected when your h is still holding onto his resentment. It sounds like the resentment is fading, though.
I'm feeling a little less connected to my h right now, too. I've been euphoric for the last couple of weeks, since we have been getting along so well. Today, I'm feeling a little down. Lack of sex and h not seeming to want to do anything about it causes mine. Unfortunately for me, all the little things he's been doing more of also make me want to be more intimate. Telling him that would probably push him away since he is "too tired."