GEL,

I'm going to have to step in quickly and disagree. Yes, the doing of other things is a loving action. It is not, however, the same as showing sexual desire and attraction and never will measure up.

The question is really, can a person live with another who "loves" them in a non-sexual sense and be satisfied? Do you REALLY have to make do with only non-sexual love? I've been thinking on this alot lately. There aren't any true and fast, black and white answers because it has to do with an individuals needs and tolerance levels.

Just my 2cents. Didn't mean to butt in but it struck a cord in me today for some reason.

OTB


Me - 47
Her - 46
4 kids, 2 still at home