flirting with each other/lack of sexpertise

[cjhoffy]

I guess we are going to the live theater downtown for h's bday. Both kids say they would like that. I will probably drive down there today to get the tickets. H doesn't know what he wants to do for his mom for Mother's Day. It doesn't sound like he wants to take her anywhere. Looking at pictures would probably make her talk about how much she hates where she is. She thinks she would have been just fine in her home. Maybe he'll just get her some flowers or candy or some new clothes. I'll leave it up to him. I just want h to have a nice bday. Mother's Day is up to him and the kids.

No sex this weekend. We thought our bronchial troubles were going to clear up when we got rid of that old carpet, but h is feeling worse. I'm going to see if I can get him a dr. appt. for this evening. I asked h if he thought it would be wise to check his testerone while he is there. I suggested that low testosterone could be affecting his sleep. He said he wants to get rid of his cough first. I reminded him that he said that last year when he went in to change his sleep aide. (He has had trouble sleeping all his life.) I didn't tell h that it makes me mad that he doesn't want to check his hormones; but he could tell something was bothering me. I told him that I just wanted him to sleep better. He said that if the doctor thought testosterone might be the problem, he would have suggested it. It really ticks me off that he doesn't want to get it checked. I am so tired of hearing him say that he is too tired. If he is okay with me initiating, why would he be too tired to initiate? I didn't initiate Saturday because, I thought he would feel more up to it Sunday. But then he talked about how bad his cough was making him feel.