lostmybfriend

[lostmybfriend]

thanks runningoutoftime but i have had a consultation with a lawyer. matter of fact my husband found out and got so upset. he knows that if we go through lawyers he will loose everything. he keeps asking me why should he leave everything just bc he is leaving and i keep telling him he is not, he is throwing it away. he wants us to come up with the terms on everything and just let my lawyer do the paperwork. he has not gotten a lawyer. i don't know what to do right now but i know that i am tired of the arguing and my main concern is me and the kids while his only concern is him and the ow or at least that is how i feel. everyone keeps telling me that it will end with the ow and i wish it would hurry up and happen. that way my husband can really figure out what he wants but i don't want him coming back just bc she is gone and i am here. i want him back bc he realizes that he really wants to be with me and the kids. kinda like you don't realize what you have until its gone.