My W told me a few months ago that we would share custody and split things 50/50. I hope this was not guilt talking and she does not change her mind on the day.
I have not spoken to anyone regarding the custody laws, but I would say they are similar as the states.
I have had a good 3 weeks, and given my W space and done my own thing. I stayed out overnight on a couple of nights when I did go out, and she did not ask me anything about it. She was a little peeved in her demeanour afterwards.
The funny thing is, whenever I am pleasant to her she seems annoyed. For example, when I got home from work, and she was at home with D (after picking her up from after school care due to her working also), I asked her in a happy voice "Hi, how are you"?. She just replies "Alright".
She was the one that wanted us to be friends etc etc. I just cant work out why she is so moody. I have done nothing to upset her, I have not challenged her re: R or EA or M or D-day for nearly 3 weeks, and have been GALing and avoiding her as much as I can.
I just hope that she is not peeved that I am still around, or EA has not progressed as she may want it too, etc
She has not mentioned any dates for D-day, I have been the one to ask her the date in October. She still has not given me a date. As her cousin told me several weeks ago, she hasn't even seen a solicitor about anything and all her info regarding separation, divorce, custody has been from asking other people.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
