Really great news to report.

We are slowly lifting out of the funk! I have been trying to meet him with his sexual needs (my way - not his.)

I will try and post more later when I get time, but I did ask him tonight, "Since things have been better for a day or so, what do you feel is different?" He said he didn't know at first, then said, "We've been getting along and you've shown me that I'm important." I said, "How did I show you you're important?" He said, "sexually". We ML yesterday and I tried to make it fun and adventurous, but nothing we haven't done before really. We actually had a simultaneous O. \:D Then today we had sex twice! I actually got some books from the library on sex and I'm going to try and work on some of my inhibitions. I also told him at one point that I really need for him to recognize when I am trying and reciprocate with my needs as much as he can. I said that that is what will help pull us out of the vicious cycle. He said he knows and he agreed. He has made more efforts to touch me for no reason at all, (not a sexual advance), compliment me, telling me he loves me often, etc. Oh and he obviously is controlling anger and misunderstandings better because we did have some moments of trying to figure out a plan for the day, who should do what around the house, etc. kind of stuff.

So happy and trying to go into Monday's session with a positive heart!

**zuzu**
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