I can understand what you are saying and I feel that DB principals should apply to marriages that are strong and ones that are in jeapardy. I trust her yet will strengthen and update my understanding of the DB rules. I only wish I could get these pics out of my head. BTW, there were none of my W that were too alarming. It was the other pics and the thought that my sife could have been involved in the same thing, yet no pics were taken.