I can understand what you are saying and I feel that DB principals should apply to marriages that are strong and ones that are in jeapardy. I trust her yet will strengthen and update my understanding of the DB rules. I only wish I could get these pics out of my head. BTW, there were none of my W that were too alarming. It was the other pics and the thought that my sife could have been involved in the same thing, yet no pics were taken.

Thanks for the input.