I haven't read much on your situation but wanted you to know that I understand completely your confusion. I am living it too. You are not alone. The confusion when they are so sweet and loving in one minute and off in lala land in another is so hard to deal with.
Vent here all you want then hold your head high and go do something for yourself!
DSH Me: 36 H: 36 M: 16.8 years Bomb: 2005 ILYBNILWY Suspect OW began sometime in 2006(he denies it and I don't have 100% proof) Left home: 2/07 no contact except text message until 4/23 since then he has been coming by some and we have ML several times.
