Ok the events of this week were plentiful. On Monday, H was here when I wasnt home, he said that he was ill and all of the bathrooms at the place he was staying were occupied so he came here to use the washroom. While here he called in our income taxes. Then there is the Wednesday situation which you can read about, its two posts above this. Then on Thursday he was here while I was at my first job. I knew this because he left the toilet seat up. Noone else but him does this. Then while I was at my second job he was here again, this time he listened to my messages, messages I didnt want him to hear as they were about financing for my house. Then I found out that I need to have a legal seperation in order to have the house signed over to me. H was here on Saturday morning to pick up DS as I had to take DD to several appts. HE asked if I had heard from the bank about the financing adn I didnt say anything. He said there was a messasge and I said well then you know what they said. He said that all he got was that I needed to call them back. I told him I needed a legal seperation. He went quiet. He took my DS out for breakfast and to the park. When he returned with him, not much was said. He stood there and looked like he was gonna say something but didnt. I havent heard from him since. I feel a little invaded since he listened to my messsages. I know its still half his house, but he left and no longer lives here. I feel that that doesnt give him the right to listen to my messages or come here while I am gone without so much as a word to say that he was here. What your take on this? He just gets more confusing everyday. heather
