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Mr P;
I think you are really lucky! What an awesome opportunity you have.

I think your wife is right, nothing "inappropriate" went on in her mind. The fact that this is dramatically different behavior for her should set off sirens in your head. From your prior experience, I am assuming you have read DB/DR. If not, or it has been 3 years since you have, read it again. Now is the time to act. 180 to the rescue. I am assuming that the horrified response you are giving is what is expected, so change it up. I don't know the specifics, but something like you have really thought about it and are happy for her that she was able to just cut loose and have some fun. There may even be some male stripper role playing in your future.

Seriously Mr. P. it is time to change some things up.